By: Ozan Varol
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“A kindergarten teacher was walking around the room to check each child’s work as they drew pictures. “What are you drawing?” he asked one student.
The girl said, “I’m drawing God.”
The teacher, expecting to hear butterflies and rainbows, was shocked at this deviation from the standard curriculum: “But no one knows what God looks like.”
The girl replied, “They will in a minute.”
This is the typical juxtaposition: The curious and inquisitive child, and the conformist teacher. Our school systems were designed to churn out compliant industrial workers, not to inspire individuals to dream big and challenge the way things are. School taught us obedience and fitting in, so we could properly operate the assembly line in a dingy factory for six days a week.
The Industrial Age is long gone. This is the Information Age, but our school system is lagging far behind. The workers we’re still producing to thrive in the Industrial Age wither in the Information Age.
What follows is a list of seven questions parents typically ask their children. I’ll explain why parents should stop asking these questions and what they should ask instead.
1. “What did you learn today?” vs. “What did you disagree with today?”
2. “What did you accomplish this week?” vs. “What did you fail at this week?”
3. “Here’s how you do that.” vs. “How would you solve this problem?”
4. “Here’s your new kindergarten” vs. “What kindergarten do you want to attend?”
5. “That’s just the way it is.” vs. “Great question. Why don’t you figure out the answer?”
6. “You can’t do that.” vs. “What would it take to do that?”
7. “Did you make a new friend today?” vs. “How did you help someone today?”
It may have occurred to some of you that this post is a Trojan Horse. These questions are as much for you as they are for children.”
Read the full article here: https://ozanvarol.com/stop-asking-children-these-seven-questions-and-ask-these-instead/